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    Woman Hating: A Radical Look at Sexuality

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      man in the process of impregnation, women were invested with a supreme magical power, one which engendered awe and fear in men. As they developed skill in planting, they embodied even more explicitly fertility, generation, and of course death. The overwhelming mana of women, coupled with the high mortality which went along with childbirth, could well have led

      to practices of protection, segregation, and slowly

      increasing social restriction. With pregnancy as the

      one inevitable in a woman’s life, men began to organize

      social life in a way which excluded woman, which limited her to the living out of her reproductive function.

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      As men began to know power, that power directly related to the exclusion o f women from community life, the myth o f feminine evil developed and provided justification for laws, rites, and other practices which relegated women to pieces o f property. As a corollary, men developed the taste for subjugating others and

      hoarding power and wealth which characterizes them

      to this very day.

      Returning to yin and yang, what is crucial is the

      realization that these concepts did not originally attach

      to sex. In more concrete terms, the Great Original (first

      being) o f the Chinese chronicles is the holy woman T ’ai

      Yuan, who was an androgyne, a combined manifestation o f yin and yang. Primacy is given to the feminine principle here (the gender o f the noun is feminine) because o f woman’s generative function.

      Am ong the Tibetan Buddhists, the so-called male-

      female polarities are called yabyum; among the Indian

      Hindus, they are called Shiva and Shakti. In the Tantric

      sects o f both traditions, one finds a living religious cult

      attached to the myth o f a primal androgyne, to the

      union o f male and female. One also finds, not surprisingly, that Tantric cults are condemned by the parent culture with which they identify. T h e culminating religious rite o f the Tantrics is sacramental fucking, the ritual union o f man and woman which achieves, even if

      only symbolically, the original androgynous energy.

      This is the outstanding fact when one looks at yabyum

      and Shiva-Shakti:

      The Hindu assigned the male symbol apparatus to the

      passive, the female to the active pole; the Buddhist did

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      the opposite; the Hindu assigned the knowledge principle to the passive male pole, and the dynamic principle to the active female pole; the Vajrayana Buddhist did it the other way around. 5

      The explanation for this major difference, this attachment in one case of the feminine to the passive and in the other of the feminine to the active, is that these

      attachments were made arbitrarily. 6 Two convictions

      vital to sexist ontology are undermined: that everywhere the feminine is synonymous with the passive, receptive, etc., and so it must be true; that the definition of the feminine as passive, receptive, etc., comes from the visible, incontrovertible fact of feminine passivity, receptivity, etc.

      In Hindu mythology, as opposed to Judaic mythology, the phenomenological world is not created by god as something distinct from him. It is the godhead

      in manifestation. As Campbell describes it: “. . . the

      image of the androgynous ancestor is developed in

      terms of an essentially psychological reading of the

      problem of creation. ” 7 In a description of that androgynous being, we find: “He was just as large as a man and woman embracing. This Self then divided himself into

      two parts; and with that there was a master and a

      mistress. Therefore this body, by itself, as the sage

      Yajnavalkya declares, is like half of a split pea. ” 8

      In Egypt one of the earliest forms of moon deity was

      Isis-Net, an androgyne. The Greek Artemis was androgynous. So is Awonawilona, chief god of the Pueblo Zuni. The Greek god Eros was also androgynous.

      Plato, repeating a corrupted version of a much

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      older myth, describes in Symposium 3 types o f original human beings: male/male, male/female, female/

      female. These original humans were so powerful that

      the gods feared them and so Zeus, whose own androgynous ancestry did not stop him from becoming the Macho Kid, halved them.

      T h e Aranda o f Australia know a supernatural being

      called Numbakulla, “Eternal, ” who made androgynes

      as the first beings, then split them apart, then tied them

      back together with hemp to make couples. It is essentially this story that is repeated throughout the primitive world.

      Certain African and Melanesian tribes have ancestral images o f one being with breasts, penis, and beard.

      Hindu statues which show Shiva and Shakti united participate in the same devotional tradition —we perceive that they are united in sexual intercourse, but it is

      also possible that they represent one literal androgynous body.

      T here are still devotional religious practices which

      harken back to the mythology o f the primal androgyne

      — Tantra, for instance, in both its Tibetan and Indian

      manifestations, clearly participates in that tradition.

      Possibly the rite o f subincision, practiced in Australia,

      is similarly rooted in androgyne myth. Subincision is the

      ritual slitting open o f the underside o f the penis to form

      a permanent cleft into the urethra. T h e opening is

      called the “ penis womb. ” Campbell notes that “T h e

      subincision produces artificially a hypospadias resembling that o f a certain class o f hermaphrodites. ” 9

      T he drive back to androgyny, where it is manifest, is

      sacral, strong, compelling. It is interesting here to

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      speculate on the incest taboo. The Freudian articulation

      o f what the Oedipal complex is and means serves the

      imperatives of a patriarchal culture, of Judeo-Chris-

      tian morality, and remains largely unchallenged. But

      the earliest devotional mother-son configurations are

      those of a Mother/Goddess and her Son/Lover. The

      son is lover to the mother and is ritually sacrificed at a

      predetermined time (mothers don’t have to be possessive). This sacrifice is not related to guilt or punishment—it is holy sacrifice which sanctifies the tribe, does honor to the offering, and is premised on cyclic fertility patterns of life, death, and regeneration. These rites, associated with the worship of the Great Mother

      (the first corruption of the Great Original, or primal

      androgyne) involved ritual intercourse between mother

      and son, with the subsequent sacrifice of the son. At

      one time both a son and a daughter were sacrificed, but

      as the daughter became a mother-surrogate, the son

      was sacrificed alone. This sacralized set, Mother/God-

      dess-Son/Lover, and the rituals associated with it, are

      postandrogyne developments: that is, men and women

      experienced separateness (not duality) and attempted

      to recreate symbolically the androgynous state of mind

      and body through what we now call incest. If it is true

      that the implications of the androgyny myths in terms

      of behavior run counter to every Judeo-Christian, or

      more generally sexist, notion of morality, it would follow that incest is the primary taboo of this and similar cultures because it has its roots in the sexually dynamic

      androgynous mentality. Indeed, it is not surprising

      to discover that early versions of t
    he Oedipus story do

      not end with Oedipus putting his eyes out. Sophocles

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      leaves Oedipus overcome with fear, guilt, and remorse,

      blinded and ruined. In the earlier Homeric version,

      Oedipus becomes king and reigns happily ever after.

      Freud chose the wrong version o f the right story.

      Even Jewish mythology provides a primal androgyne. Here is the substance o f a cultural underground most directly related to us. According to the Zohar,

      the first created woman was not Eve but Lilith. She was

      created coterminous with Adam, that is, they were

      created in one body, androgynous. T hey were o f one

      substance, one corporality. God, so the legend goes,

      split them apart so that Lilith could be dressed as a bride

      and married to Adam properly, but Lilith rebelled at

      the whole concept o f marriage,, that is, o f being defined as Adam ’s inferior, and fled. Lilith was in fact the first woman and the first feminist both. T h e Jewish

      patriarchs, with shrewd vengeance, called her a witch.

      They said that the witch Lilith haunted the night (her

      name is etymologically associated with the Hebrew

      word for night) and killed infants. She became symbolic

      o f the dark, evil side o f all women. O f course, Lilith,

      we know now, made the correct analysis and went to the

      core o f the problem: she rejected the nuclear family.

      God, however, saw it differently — he had created Lilith

      from dust, just as he had created Adam. He had created her free and equal. Not making the same mistake twice, Eve was created from Adam's rib, clearly giving

      her no claim to either freedom or equality. It took the

      Christians to assert that since the rib is bent, woman’s

      nature is contrary to man’s.

      How then can we understand the biblical statement

      that God created man in his own image —male and fe­

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      male created he them? The Midrash gives the definitive answer: When the Holy One, Blessed Be He, created the first man, he created him androgynous. 10 There is also

      a corresponding Jewish androgynous godhead. The

      very word for the godhead, Elohim, is composed of a

      feminine noun and a masculine plural ending. God

      is multiple and androgynous. The tradition of the

      androgynous godhead is most clearly articulated in the

      Kabbalah, a text which in written form goes back to the

      Middle Ages. The oral Kabbalah, which is more extensive than the written Kabbalah, originates in the most obscure reaches of Jewish history, before the

      Bible, and has been preserved with, according to occultists, more care than the written Bible —that is, the Bible has been rewritten, edited, modified, translated;

      oral Kabbalah has retained its purity.

      The Kabbalistic scheme of the godhead is complex.

      Suffice it here to say that god is male and female interwoven. Certain parts are associated with the female, other parts with the male. For instance, primal understanding is female; wisdom is male; severity is female; mercy is male. Special prominence is given to the final

      emanation of the godhead, Malkuth the Queen, the

      physical manifestation of the godhead in the universe.

      Malkuth the Queen is roughly equivalent to Shakti. For

      the Kabbalists, as for the Tantrics, the ultimate sacrament is sexual intercourse which recreates androgyny.

      Just as the Tantrics are/were ostracized by the rest of

      the Hindu and Buddhist communities, so do the main

      body of Jews ostracize the Kabbalists. Now they are

      considered to be freaks —they have been viewed as

      heretics. And heretics they are, for in recognizing the

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      androgynous nature o f the godhead they undermine

      the authority o f God the Father and threaten the power

      o f patriarchy.

      It remains only to point out that Christ also had

      some notion o f androgyny. In Gospel to the Egyptians,

      Christ and a disciple named Salome have this conversation:

      When Salome asked how long Death should prevail,

      the Lord said: So long as ye women bear children; for

      I have come to destroy the work o f the Female. And

      Salome said to Him: Did I therefore well in having

      no children? T h e Lord answered and said: Eat every

      Herb, but eat not that which hath bitterness. When

      Salome asked when these things about which she questioned would be made known, the Lord said: When ye trample upon the garment o f shame; when the Tw o

      become One, and Male with Female neither male nor

      fem ale. 11

      In the next chapter I am going to pursue the implications o f androgyny myths in the areas o f sexual identity and sexual behavior, and it would be in keeping

      with the spirit o f this book to take Christ as my guide

      and say with him: “When ye trample upon the garment

      o f shame; when the Tw o become One, and Male with

      Female neither male nor female. ”

      C H A P T E R 9

      Androgyny: Androgyny, Fucking,

      and Community

      Nothing short o f everything will really do.

      Aldous Huxley, Island

      The discovery is, of course, that “man” and “woman”

      are fictions, caricatures, cultural constructs. As models

      they are reductive, totalitarian, inappropriate to human

      becoming. As roles they are static, demeaning to the

      female, dead-ended for male and female both. Culture

      as we know it legislates those fictive roles as normalcy.

      Deviations from sanctioned, sacred behavior are “gender disorders, ” “criminality, ” as well as “sick, ” “disgusting, ” and “immoral. ” Heterosexuality, which is properly defined as the ritualized behavior built on

      polar role definition, and the social institutions related

      to it (marriage, the family, the Church, ad infinitum)

      are “human nature. ” Homosexuality, transsexuality,

      incest, and bestiality persist as the “perversions” of this

      “human nature” we presume to know so much about.

      They persist despite the overwhelming forces marshaled against them —discriminatory laws and social practices, ostracism, active persecution by the state

      and other organs of the culture —as inexplicable embarrassments, as odious examples of “filth” and/or

      “maladjustment. ” The attempt here, however modest

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      and incomplete, is to discern another ontology, one

      which discards the fiction that there are two polar

      distinct sexes.

      We have seen that androgyny myths present an

      image o f one corporality which is both male and female.

      Sometimes the image is literally a man-form and a

      woman-form in one body. Sometimes it is a figure

      which incorporates both male and female functions.

      In every case, that mythological image is a paradigm

      for a wholeness, a harmony, and a freedom which is

      virtually unimaginable, the antithesis o f every assumption we hold about the nature o f identity in general and sex in particular. T h e first question then is: What

      o f biology? There are, after all, men and women. They

      are different, demonstrably so. We are each o f one sex

      or the other. If there are two discrete b
    iological sexes,

      then it is not hard to argue that there are two discrete

      modes o f human behavior, sex-related, sex-determined.

      One might argue for a liberalization o f sex-based roles,

      but one cannot justifiably argue for their total redefinition.

      Hormone and chromosome research, attempts to

      develop new means o f human reproduction (life created in, or considerably supported by, the scientist’s laboratory), work with transsexuals, and studies o f

      formation o f gender identity in children provide basic

      information which challenges the notion that there are

      two discrete biological sexes. That information threatens

      to transform the traditional biology o f sex difference

      into the radical biology o f sex similarity. That is not to

      say that there is one sex, but that there are many. The

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      evidence which is germane here is simple. The words

      “male” and “female, ” “man” and “woman, ” are used

      only because as yet there are no others.

      1. Men and women have the same basic body structure. Both have both male and female genitals —the clitoris is a vestigial penis, the prostate gland is most

      probably a vestigial womb. Since, as I pointed out earlier, there is information on only 2 percent of human history, and since religious chronicles, which were for

      centuries the only record of human history, consistently

      speak of another time in the cycle o f time when humans

      were androgynous, and since each sex has the vestigial

      organs of the other, there is no reason not to postulate

      that humans once were androgynous — hermaphroditic

      and androgynous, created precisely in the image of

      that constantly recurring androgynous godhead.

      2. Until the 7th week of fetal development both

      sexes have precisely the same external genitalia. Basically, the development of sex organs and ducts is the same for males and females and the same two sets of

      ducts develop in both.

      3. The gonads cannot be said to be entirely male or

     


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