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    Woman Hating: A Radical Look at Sexuality

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      sexual and creative energy and activity, penetrates even

      into what Freud called the id, gives nightmare shape to

      natural desire. In order to achieve proper balance in

      interhuman interaction, we must find ways to change

      ourselves from culturally defined agents into naturally

      defined beings. We must find ways o f destroying the

      cultural personae imposed on our psyches and we must

      discover forms o f relationship, behavior, sexual being

      and interaction, which are compatible with our inherent

      natural possibilities. We must move away from the perverse, two-dimensional definitions which stem from sexual repression, which are the source o f social oppression, and move toward creative, full, multidimensional modes o f sexual expression.

      Essentially the argument is this: we look at the world

      we inhabit and we see disaster everywhere; police states;

      prisons and mental hospitals filled to overflowing; alienation o f workers from their work, women and men from each other, children from the adult community,

      governments contemptuous o f their people, people

      filled with intense self-hatred; street violence, assault,

      rape, contract murderers, psychotic killers; acquisition

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      gone mad, concentrated power and wealth; hunger,

      want, starvation, camps filled with refugees. Those

      phenomena mark the distance between civilized man

      and natural man, tribal man, whose sexual and social

      patterns functioned in a more integrated, balanced

      way. We know how it is now, and we want to know how

      it was then. While we cannot reconstruct the moment

      when humans emerged in evolution into recognizable

      humanness, or analyze that person to see what existence

      was like, while we cannot seek to emulate rituals and

      social forms of tribal people, or penetrate to and then

      imitate the dynamic relationship primitive people had

      with the rest of the natural world, while we cannot even

      know much of what happened before people made

      pottery and built cities, while we cannot (and perhaps

      would not) obliterate the knowledge that we do have

      (of space travel and polio vaccines, cement and Hiroshima), we can still find extant in the culture echoes of a distant time when people were more together, figuratively and literally. These echoes reflect a period in human development when people functioned as a part

      of the natural world, not set over against it; when men

      and women, male and female, were whatever they were,

      not polar opposites, separated by dress and role into

      castes, fragmented pieces of some not-to-be-imagined

      whole.

      In recent years, depth psychologists in particular

      have turned to primitive people and tribal situations

      in an effort to penetrate into the basic dynamics of

      male and female. The most notable effort was made by

      Jung, and it is necessary to state here that, admirable

      as his other work sometimes is, Jung and his followers

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      have carried the baggage o f patriarchy and sexual dualism with them into the search. Jung describes male and female in the absolute terms native to the culture, as

      archetypes preexistent in the psyche. Male is defined

      as authority, logic, order, that which is saturnian and

      embodies the consonant values o f patriarchy; female is

      defined as emotional, receptive, anarchic, cancerian.

      Matriarchy preceded patriarchy because patriarchal

      values (particularly the need for complex organization)

      inform advanced societies, whereas female values inform more primitive tribal societies. As far as individual men and women are concerned, the male psyche has a

      feminine component (the subconscious) which is anarchic, emotional, sensitive, lunar, and the female personality has a male component (the conscious, or

      mind) which can be defined as a capacity for logical

      thought. O f course, biological women are ruled, it

      turns out, by the subconscious; men are ruled, not surprisingly, by the conscious, mind, intellect. One might imagine a time and place where intellect is not valued

      over anarchic, emotional, sensitive —looniness?: but

      that would be the most gratuitous kind o f fantasy. Jung

      never questioned the cultural arbitrariness o f these categories, never looked at them to see their political implications, never knew that they were sexist, that he functioned as an instrument o f cultural oppression.

      In the book Woman's Mysteries: Ancient and Modem,

      M. Esther Harding, a lifelong student o f Jung and a

      Patron o f the C. G. Jung Institute, applies Jungian ontology to a study o f mythology. Taking the moon, Luna, as the patron saint o f women (ignoring any masculine imagery associated with the moon, and this

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      imagery is substantial; ignoring any feminine imagery

      connected with the sun, and this imagery is substantial),

      Harding ultimately identifies the female with the demonic, as did the Catholic Church:

      But if she will stop long enough to look within, she

      also may become aware of impulses and thoughts

      which are not in accord with her conscious attitudes

      but are the direct outcome of the crude and untamed

      feminine being within her. For the most part, however,

      a woman will not look at these dark secrets of her own

      nature. It is too painful, too undermining of the conscious character which she has built up for herself; she prefers to think that she really is as she appears to be.

      And indeed it is her task to stand between the Eros

      which is within her, and the world without, and

      through her own womanly adaptation to the world

      to make human, as it were, the daemoniac power of

      the nonhuman feminine principle. 1

      Eros, the subconscious, the flow of human sexual energy— described as the witch burners described it, “the daemoniac power of the nonhuman feminine principle. ”

      Harding is absolutely representative of the Jungian

      point of view.

      It is a natural consequence of this dualistic stance

      that male and female are pitted against each other and

      that conflict is the dynamic mode of relationship open

      to male and female, men and women, when they meet:

      These discrepancies in their attitudes are dependent

      on the fact that the psychic constitution of men and

      women are essentially different; they are mirror opposites the one of the other.. . . So that their essential nature and values are diametrically opposed. 2

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      These male and female sets are defined as archetypes,

      embedded in a collective unconscious, the given structure o f reality. T hey are polar opposites; their mode o f interaction is conflict. T hey cannot possibly understand each other because they are absolutely different: and o f course, it is always easier to do violence to something Other, something whose “nature and values”

      are other. (Women have never understood that they

      are, by definition, Other, not male, therefore not human. But men do experience women as being totally opposite, other. How easy violence is. ) T here is, because Jung was a good man and Jungians are good people, a happy ending: though these two forces, male

      and female, are opposite, they are complementary, two

      halves o f the same whole. One is not superior,
    one is not

      inferior. One is not good, one is not bad. But this resolution is inadequate because the culture, in its fiction and its history, demonstrates that one (male, logic, order,

      ego, father) is good and superior both, and that the

      other (guess which) is bad and inferior both. It is the

      so-called female principle of Eros that all the paraphernalia

      of patriarchy conspires to suppress through the psychological,

      physiological, and economic oppression of those who are biologically women. Jung’s ontology serves those persons and institutions which subscribe to the myth o f feminine

      evil.

      T he identification o f the feminine with Eros, or

      erotic energy (carnality by any other name), comes

      from a fundamental misunderstanding o f the nature o f

      human sexuality. The essential information which

      would lead to nonsexist, nonrepressive notions o f sexuality is to be found in androgyny myths, myths which

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      describe the creation of the first human being as male

      and female in one form. In other words, Jung chose the

      wrong model, the wrong myths, on which to construct

      a psychology of male and female. He used myths infused with patriarchal values, myths which gained currency in male-dominated cultures. The anthropological discoveries which fueled the formation of his theories

      all reveal relatively recent pieces of human history.

      With few exceptions, all of the anthropological information we have deals with the near past. * But the myths which are the foundation of and legitimize our culture

      are gross perversions of original creation myths which

      molded the psyches of earlier, possibly less self-con-

      scious and more conscious, peoples. The original myths

      all concern a primal androgyne —an androgynous godhead, an androgynous people. The corruptions of these myths of a primal androgyne without exception

      uphold patriarchal notions of sexual polarity, duality,

      male and female as opposite and antagonistic. The

      myth of a primal androgyne survives as part of a real

      cultural underground: though it is ignored, despised

      by a culture which posits other values, and though

      those who relate their lifestyles directly to it have been

      ostracized and persecuted.

      With all of this talk of myth and mythology, what is

      myth, and why does it have such importance? The best

      definition remains that of Eliade, who wrote in Myths,

      Dreams, and Mysteries:

      *

      It is estimated that the time space between 70 0 0 b . c . (when people

      began to domesticate animals'and make pottery) and 1 9 7 4 a . d . is only 2 percent of the whole o f human history.

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      What exactly is a myth? In the language current during the nineteenth century, a “myth” meant anything that was opposed to “reality”: the creation of Adam,

      or the invisible man, no less than the history of the

      world as described by the Zulus, or the Theogony of

      Hesiod —these were all “myths. ” Like many another

      cliche of the Enlightenment and of Positivism, this,

      too, was of Christian origin and structure; for, according to primitive Christianity, everything which could not be justified by reference to one or the other

      of the two Testaments was untrue; it was a “fable. ”

      But the researches of the ethnologists have obliged us

      to go behind this semantic inheritance from the Christian polemics against the pagan world. We are at last beginning to know and understand the value of the

      myth, as it has been elaborated in “primitive” and

      archaic societies — that is, among those groups of mankind where the myth happens to be the very foundation of social life and culture. Now one fact strikes us immediately: in such societies the myth is thought to

      express the absolute truth, because it narrates a sacred

      history; that is, a transhuman revelation which took

      place at the dawn of the Great Time.. . . Being real

      and sacred, the myth becomes exemplary, and consequently, repeatable, for it serves as a model, and by the same token, a justification, for all human actions. In

      other words, a myth is a true history of what came to pass

      at the beginning of Time, and one which provides the pattern for human behavior. 3 [Italics added]

      I would extend Eliade’s definition in only one respect.

      It is not only in primitive and archaic societies that

      myths provide this model for behavior —it is in every

      human society. T he distance between myth and social

      organization is perhaps greater, or more tangled, in

      advanced technological societies, but myth still operates

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      as the substructure of the collective. The story of Adam

      and Eve will affect the shape of settlements on the moon

      and Mars, and the Christian version of the primitive

      myth of a divine fertility sacrifice saturates the most

      technologically advanced communications media.

      What are the myths of androgyny, and how do we

      locate them behind the myths of polarity with which we

      are familiar? Let us begin with the Chinese notions of yin

      and yang.

      Yin and yang are commonly associated with female

      and male. The Chinese ontology, so appealing in that

      it appears to give whole, harmonious, value-free description of phenomena, describes cosmic movement as cyclical, thoroughly interwoven manifestation of yang

      (masculine, aggressive, light, spring, summer) and yin

      (female, passive, dark, fall, winter). The sexual identifications reduce the concepts too often to conceptual polarities: they are used to fix the proper natures of

      men and women as well as the forces of male and female.

      These definitions, like the Jungian ones which are based

      on them, are seemingly modified by the assertions that

      (1) all people are composed of both yin and yang,

      though in the man yang properly predominates and in

      the woman yin properly predominates; (2) these male

      and female forces are two parts of a whole, equally

      vital, mutually indispensable. Unfortunately, as one

      looks to day-to-day life, that biological incarnation of

      yin, woman, finds herself, as always, the dark half of

      the universe.

      The sexual connotations of yin and yang, however,

      are affixed onto the original concepts. They reflect an

      already patriarchal, and misogynist, culture. Richard

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      Wilhelm, in an essay on an ancient Chinese text called

      The Secret of the Golden Flower, gives the uncorrupted

      meanings o f yin and yang:

      Out of the Tao, and the Tai-chi [“the great ridge

      pole, the supreme ultimate”] there develop the principles of reality, the one pole being the light (yang) and the other the dark, or the shadowy, (yin). Among

      European scholars, some have turned first to sexual

      references for an explanation, but the characters refer

      to phenomena in nature. Yin is shade, therefore the

      north side of a mountain and the south side of a river.

      . . . Yang, in its original form, indicates flying pennants

      and, corresponding to the character of yin, is the south

      side of a mountain and the north side of a river. Starting only with the meaning of “light” and
    “dark, ” the principle was then expanded to all polar opposites,

      including the sexual. However, since both yin and yang

      have their common origin in an undivided One and

      are active only in the realm of phenomena, where yang

      appears as the active principle and conditions, and yin

      as the passive principle is derived and conditioned, it

      is quite clear that a metaphysical dualism is not the

      basis for these ideas. 4

      Light and dark are obvious in a phenomenological

      sense —there is day and it slowly changes into night

      which then slowly changes into day. When men began

      conceptualizing about the nature o f the universe, the

      phenomena o f light and dark were an obvious starting

      point. My own experience is that night and day are

      more alike than different —in which case they couldn't

      possibly be opposite. Man, in conceptualizing, has

      reduced phenomena to two, when phenomena are

      more complex and subtle than intellect can imagine.

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      Still, how is it that it is the feminine, the sexually

      female, that is embodied in yin? Even patriarchy and

      misogyny began somewhere. Here I can only guess. We

      know that at one time men were hunters and women

      were planters. Both forms o f work were essential and

      arduous. Both demanded incredible physical strength

      and considerable knowledge and skill. Why did men

      hunt and women plant? Clearly women planted because they were often pregnant, and though pregnancy did not make them weak and passive, it did mean that

      they could not run, go without food for long periods of

      time, survive on the terms that hunting demanded. It

      is probable that very early in human history women

      also were hunters, and that it was crucial to the survival

      of the species that they develop into planters — first to

      supplement the food supply, second to reduce infant

      and woman mortality. We see that the first division of

      labor based on biological sex originated in a fundamental survival imperative. In the earliest of times, with no contraception and no notion of the place of the

     


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