THE POCKET
KAMA SUTRA SUPER SEX
52 RED-HOT POSITIONS
NICOLE BAILEY
THE POCKET
KAMA SUTRA SUPER SEX
52 RED-HOT POSITIONS
THE POCKET KAMA SUTRA SUPER SEX
NICOLE BAILEY
First published in the United Kingdom and Ireland in 2010 by Duncan Baird Publishers Ltd
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The publishers, the author and the photographer cannot accept any responsibility for any injuries or damages incurred as a result of following the advice in this book, or of using any of the techniques described or mentioned herein. If you suffer from any health problems or special conditions, it is recommended that you consult your doctor before following any practice suggested in this book. Some of the advice in this book involves the use of massage oil. However, do not use massage oil if you are using a condom – the oil damages latex. Outdoor sex, in places of free public access, is illegal in many jurisdictions, and anyone who chooses to have sex outside or to be less than fully clothed in public should inform themselves of the possible penalties (which in some countries are very severe) and be thoroughly aware of the risks. Neither the publisher nor the author can take any responsibility for any legal action or other unintended consequences resulting from following any of the advice or suggestions in this book.
Contents
Introduction
SENSUAL PLEASURE
Pressing Position
Lotus Position
Cicada on a Bough
Sensual Massage
Leg Raise
Eleventh Posture
Splitting of a Bamboo
Kama Sutra Kisses
Half-pressed Position
The Contrary Position
Pleasure Her Sweet Spots
Ninth Posture
The Turning Position
Teasing with a Touch
The Goat and the Tree
Super Sensual 69 Position
Seagulls on the Wing
Take Hold … Satisfy Him
MIND SEX
Bamboo
The Clasping Position
Variety … the Spice of Life
Fifth Posture
Seduce the Mind
Thigh Clasp
Tiger Step
The Swing
Get Creative … Fantasize
Rainbow Arch
Yawning Position
Pressed Position
Galloping Horse
Tempt, Tease … Turn Them On
Widely Opened Position
Be a Bit Naughty
Rising Position
Put Your Trust in Your Lover
Horse Shakes Feet
Submit or Take Control
KAMA SUTRA WISDOM
Congress of a Cow
First Posture
Cicada to the Side
Learn the Right Moves
Position of Indrani
Large Bee
Sixth Posture
A Real Treat for Your Lover
Riding the Member
Tenth Position
Do You Need a Spank?
Suspended Congress
Enjoy Naughty Nibbles
Kama’s Wheel
Driving the Peg Home
The Twining Position
Ape
Play for Pleasure
Mutual View of the Buttocks
TRY TANTRA
Fourth Posture
Cross-legged Position
A Haven of Pleasure
Fish
Tighten Those Muscles
Silkworm Spinning a Cocoon
Butterfly
Use Sexual Energy
Eighth Posture
Build Sexual Energy
Elephant
Packed Position
Sitting on Top Position
Melt Into Each Other
Ankle Brace
Play the Flute
Mandarin Ducks
Merge Through Breathing
Dragon Turn
The Perfect End
Index
INTRODUCTION
The Kama Sutra is the greatest inspiration for varied, intimate and satisfying lovemaking. Here the invaluable wisdom from that ancient text has been combined with contemporary knowledge about sex. With 52 sizzling sex positions – one to try each week of the year – you and your lover can enjoy dipping in and experimenting with the wide range of different positions and techniques. You will enjoy hours of pleasure and the ultimate in sexual fulfilment, Kama Sutra style.
Sensual Pleasure: Find out how to kiss, caress, massage and play with your lover to up the eroticism and intimacy of your lovemaking.
Mind Sex: Play with your lover’s mind as well as their body by sharing your fantasies, trying roleplay and getting in the mood for sex.
Kama Sutra Wisdom: Discover sexual techniques and fascinating sexual insights and use them as you make love.
Try Tantra: Learn the ancient Indian art of lovemaking and discover your sexual energy.
01-13 sensual pleasure
WEEK 01
PRESSING POSITION
This is the extra-intimate, sex-meets-hug version of the missionary position. He climbs on top and she wraps him up in her arms and legs. Or for more ambitious lovers, he picks her up in a standing position, carries her to the bed and lays her down. Reserve this “manly” option for grand romantic gestures as it’s more stimulating to the emotions than the genitals.
WEEK 02
LOTUS POSITION
He’ll love to look at her as she lies on her back, opening herself to him with her legs in the beautiful lotus position. He penetrates from on top. It’s challenging, but will be thrilling for both of you. The lotus position binds her legs in position and, once his body is pressing down on hers, she’s effectively locked into place. Girls: practise getting into the lotus position on your own before you attempt it in bed with your lover. If she can’t achieve the full position, she should cross her legs as shown here.
WEEK 03
CICADA ON A BOUGH
Enjoy sensual sex from behind in this classic Tao sex position. Imagine a cicada perching on a branch – he’s the cicada; she’s the branch. If you don’t like the raw animalism of the doggie position, but want deep penetration and the eroticism
of belly against buttock, this is perfect. The position of the heads means lovers get to whisper to each other and he can use his spare hand to gently trace the shape of her lips or make feather-light strokes along her jaw-line … delicious.
deep & intimate
get in the mood… sensual massage
Prepare for lovemaking with an erotic massage. Sex may be the last thing on your lover’s mind at the beginning of the massage, but it certainly won’t be by the end …
STEP 1: Help your lover to undress and lie face down on top of some warm towels. Join your lover by stripping off, too – it makes things intimate and sensual rather than clinical. Pour a little massage oil into your hands and rub them together to warm the oil. Kneel behind your lover’s head and let your oiled palms glide down the length of the back. At the buttocks move your hands apart and draw them slowly but firmly back up the sides of your lover’s body. Keep repeating this stroke.
STEP 2: Re-oil your hands and then straddle your lover’s thighs. Draw a firm line along either side of their spine using your index and middle fingers. Pause briefly at the shoulder muscles to press your fingertips in circular movements. Repeat this technique as many times as you like. Ask your lover for feedback.
STEP 3: Still straddling your lover’s thighs, let your fingertips move in random swirly patterns all over their back. Make your touch light and feathery and keep re-oiling your hands so that your fingers glide smoothly. Finally, gently lower your body so that your entire front covers their back (guys: take some weight on your elbows if you’re in danger of crushing her). Kiss and nuzzle the back of their neck and whisper an invitation to turn over when they’re ready.
WEEK 04
LEG RAISE
Standing sex can be sensual as this position proves, with its immediacy, spontaneity and skin-to-skin contact. There’s the chance to nuzzle and cuddle throughout, and enjoy a passionate kiss. She simply stands on one leg while he supports her raised leg by holding her buttock. If he is much taller than her, he can make this position easier by squatting slightly.
WEEK 05
ELEVENTH POSTURE
You’ll be completely wrapped up in each other in the Eleventh Posture, which demands yoga-like flexibility from the woman. She lies on a pile of pillows or cushions with the soles of her feet pressed together and her knees out to the sides. Then her lover lies on top. If this is more than her groin or thigh muscles can take, there’s an easier version, shown here, in which he penetrates first then she presses her soles together behind him.
WEEK 06
SPLITTING OF A BAMBOO
To find new pleasure zones, it helps to be experimental. She starts with both legs over his shoulders as he leans in toward her. Then, she drops one leg so that her foot is flat on the bed. Next, she switches leg positions so that her lower leg now rests on his shoulder. She keeps doing this for as long as he stays in the position, and gets a great leg workout too!
more sensual pleasure
kama sutra… kisses
Kama Sutra kisses include THE BOWL in which one partner rubs their tongue over the teeth, palate and tongue of the other; LIP DRINKING in which the lips are pressed together and the tip of the tongue is used; and THE STIRRING KISS, which a woman uses to arouse a sleepy or distracted man. For a kiss to remember … START SLOW, and build up. Be flirty and tentative and wait for your moves to be reciprocated, unless you simply can’t hold back.
WEEK 07
HALF-PRESSED POSITION
In this truly erotic position, he can indulge all his fantasies as he gets the chance to watch her pleasure herself. With her legs raised, she simply opens them slightly to make a bit of space to slip her hand down there for some mid-sex clitoral stimulation. Meanwhile, he’s in charge of penetration – he can combine going in slightly with entering her deeply.
WEEK 08
THE CONTRARY POSITION
There is nothing more sensual and intimate than flesh on flesh … in this Ananga Ranga position the woman is instructed to “apply her breast to the man’s bosom” as she lies “straight upon his outstretched body”. He then takes her waist or buttocks firmly in hand and moves her accordingly. There is added intimacy as she doesn’t have much leverage to move because her legs are parallel with his.
WEEK 09
THE BOW POSITION
Although your bodies are far apart in this position, there are still plenty of opportunities for intimate and sensual caresses. The woman lies on her back with a cushion or pillow underneath her bottom, which raises the so-called “seat of pleasure”. This allows for deep, satisfying, precision penetration. Even if you feel silly arranging the cushions at exactly the right height for comfort, you’ll be glad later when you’re moving in perfect rhythmic harmony. The Bow Position is also exhilarating for her because she’s slightly inverted. He, meanwhile, gets to act the dominant part and be in control.
enjoy sensual touch
pleasure her… sweet spots
If you want to hit the erotic epicentre of a woman’s body, you’ll need to find all her sweet spots.
THE CLITORIS: An excellent way to tackle both the internal and the external clitoris is to stimulate her hood and head while also moving your fingers in and out of her vagina – your fingers will be massaging her clitoral “legs” as they pass the vagina (the head is connected to a shaft that splits into two “legs” – picture a wishbone). As her clitoral legs become more engorged and erect, her vaginal entrance will tighten around your fingers. Experiment with different ways of moving your fingers and stay near the entrance as this is where she’s most sensitive. Ask your lover for feedback.
THE G-SPOT: Now press your fingertips against the front wall of her vagina (the wall on the side nearest her belly) and find her G-spot. It’s about 5cm (2in) up and feels different from the surrounding area – ridged and oval in shape. Not all women like G-spot stimulation, but for those who do it can turn a good orgasm into a mind-blowing one. Press firmly into her G-spot and try massaging it in circles. Or ask her which she prefers – movement or static pressure.
MIX IT UP: Combine G-spot stimulation with clitoral attention – use all the tools at your disposal, your fingers, your tongue or a sex toy designed to target the G-spot or vibrate against the clit. When she comes, keep that firm pressure on her G-spot – don’t release it until after the final ripple.
WEEK 10
NINTH POSTURE
It is the skin-to-skin contact of this erotic pose that makes it so sensual. It has got the raunchiness of the doggie position but without being so dirty and animalistic. Do it instead of the doggie position when you want that extra bit of intimacy or when you don’t want poundingly deep penetration. Take up your positions by the side of a bed or sofa. To experiment, position yourself near to a mirror and get a kick out of the voyeurism.
WEEK 11
THE TURNING POSITION
Sensual lovemaking can be bold and athletic so be experimental with positions such as this one. If you don’t pull it off, you can still have fun and enjoy giggling about it. Before you start you’ll need plenty of lube plus a strong erection. He starts off in the missionary position and then turns by 180 degrees so that he’s facing her feet. The tricky bit is that his penis must remain inside her for the duration of the turn.
teasing… with a touch
You can use more than your hands for erotic foreplay. Long hair and shaved heads create TICKLES and TINGLES of pleasure. Kisses, nibbles and bites feel good, too. Get oily and slide against each other, SKIN TO SKIN. Tease using your lover’s toes. Gently take one foot and stroke oil into the skin using firm circular thumb pressure all over the surface. Now slowly push your index finger IN AND OUT between each of their toes – this feels undeniably sexual – before taking the toes in your mouth to NIBBLE and SUCK them.
WEEK 12
THE GOAT AND THE TREE
This sensual seated position can be pulled off in public if you’re extremely discreet (think bench in a remote part of the park rathe
r than packed commuter train). She needs to wear a skirt or dress and you both need to be able to stand up at a moment’s notice and look innocent. Even if you do it in the comfort of your own bedroom/dining room/living room this is a great position for cheekiness and erotic spontaneity. To maximize movement she can lean forward, rest her hands on his knees and bob up and down.
be daring
super sensual… 69 position
The Kama Sutra said “Sometimes a man and a woman may turn so they lie head to foot and make love to each other with their mouths.” What we now know as the 69 position is all about mutual pleasure – and what greater thrill for you and your lover than to come together through sensational simultaneous oral sex.
GET IN POSITION: A 69 doesn’t have to happen only in moments of high passion and naughty excitement; there’s no reason why it shouldn’t also be a slow, sensual act. Instead of going for a high-maintenance position such as straddling each other’s faces, lie side by side and head to toe in a relaxed way. This way you’ll both be comfortable and it’s “equal” in that neither one of you feels over-exposed (or smothered).
TAKE YOUR TIME: Don’t think of the 69 position as being a fast route to quick, dramatic, simultaneous orgasms. Instead, think of it as a handy position from which to explore each other’s most intimate parts – whether with your mouth, fingers, or a favourite sex toy. Rather than heading straight for his penis/her clitoris, take a leisurely approach that consists of some thigh stroking and nuzzling. Give each other’s pubic triangle some attention – tweak their pubes if they’ve got any; tickle or nibble their skin if they haven’t. Reach around and lightly scratch their buttocks. Even when your tongue eventually arrives on your lover’s hot spot, keep your mouth movements playful and light at first before hotting things up a little.